PROMISES..PROMISES

What is a Promise? As a Noun, It is a declaration or assurance that one will do a particular thing or that guarantees that a particular thing will happen. (Merriam-Webster) As a Verb, It is to assure someone that one will definitely do, give, or arrange something; undertake or declare that something will happen. (Merriam-Webster) Should a promise always meant to be broken? Or should it always be fulfilled?

As per experience, promises are broken when one does not really meant what he said. A promise is being abused when it is used to appease someone to believe his words. A broken promise is a shattered hope. It is a betrayal of trust. So never promise when you can't keep it. Promise only when you know the words you say is true and never lie.

Believe it or not I am always a victim of broken promises. It's hard to accept broken promises because you longed for it for so long, you get so excited that you will get that promise soon. It is something you hoped to happen and yet you get dismayed and disheartened of the reality that the promise cannot be fulfilled because of so many unfounded reasons. Why do people promise when they know they can't keep it? Why?

If you're reading this, please stop promising when you don't know the meaning of it. Or worse, it may get you into trouble. ;-(

Does Love hurts?

Does love hurt? Well it does hurt. But aren't we suppose to get happiness when we love? Aren't we suppose to get what love is worth? But then why do we have to pay a big price of getting hurt in the end. Why do we get the "its-the-end-of-the-world" feeling when we fall out of love.

While it's true that it's easy to learn to love someone but it gets you double the pain when you fall out of it. True? Yes, I would agree. Because I am a living testament to this awful experience. And mind you, it's a whole lot of mess if you don't come out of it.

While I am on a long vacation at the moment. I try to relish and keep up to those lost times I had with my family and friends. I try not to think about it that could only dampen my mood. I try to get stronger everyday thinking that this will pass  and forget about this emotion soon. After all, life is such an unpredictable piece. That life is a destiny that we choose our own. Love is a part of our lives, and how we bring our relationships is our call. Then destiny dictates if we fall in and out of it.

Though at the end, we become wiser and stronger persons in terms of our emotional ability to adapt with the intricacies of a love-hate relationship. Also, as better decision-makers.