Sunday, April 17, 2011

Does Love hurts?


Does love hurt? Well it does hurt. But aren't we suppose to get happiness when we love? Aren't we suppose to get what love is worth? But then why do we have to pay a big price of getting hurt in the end. Why do we get the "its-the-end-of-the-world" feeling when we fall out of love.

While it's true that it's easy to learn to love someone but it gets you double the pain when you fall out of it. True? Yes, I would agree. Because I am a living testament to this awful experience. And mind you, it's a whole lot of mess if you don't come out of it.

While I am on a long vacation at the moment. I try to relish and keep up to those lost times I had with my family and friends. I try not to think about it that could only dampen my mood. I try to get stronger everyday thinking that this will pass  and forget about this emotion soon. After all, life is such an unpredictable piece. That life is a destiny that we choose our own. Love is a part of our lives, and how we bring our relationships is our call. Then destiny dictates if we fall in and out of it.

Though at the end, we become wiser and stronger persons in terms of our emotional ability to adapt with the intricacies of a love-hate relationship. Also, as better decision-makers.

3 comments:

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  2. I would have to agree with you. But you know what, you won't know how much you've loved until you know how much it hurts. The real deal is giving out all you can and even if it doesn't turn out the way you planned it to be, the great thing about it is that it made you happy. That's one thing you cannot regret. Being happy. That will be the only thing you will remember when you're old and wise and reminiscing.

    Kudos to everyone who fell in love.

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    Jhing

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  3. Thanks Jhing,

    I can't help but cry hard after reading your comment. What you said is so true and i felt so sad. Not your fault though. But I started to question why do we have love to be happy, and yet part of what love is is getting hurt, most often, painfully.

    For now, I forgot what being happy means. I am blinded with all this mixed emotions that I have but I know it's only a matter of time this feeling will be over.

    I am hurting and it's not easy to have emotions like this. Life is being unfair to me AGAIN.

    Can we not be happy forever?

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